Curious about tying the knot online but not sure whether to consider a proxy marriage or a virtual marriage? You’re not alone! As digital weddings become more popular, couples are asking, “What’s the real difference between a proxy marriage and a virtual marriage?” Today, I’ll walk you through both, clearing up confusion, and helping you decide which path fits your love story best. Whether you’re military, international, or just love the convenience, we’ve got answers!
What is a Proxy Marriage?
In a proxy marriage, one or both parties are not physically present for the ceremony. Instead, a stand-in (the ‘proxy’) legally represents the absent partner. Proxy marriages are often used by military couples or those facing immigration barriers. This process is available in very few states, like Montana.
What is a Virtual Marriage?
Virtual marriage—sometimes called an online marriage or Zoom marriage—is entirely different. Both partners are present, but the ceremony happens via a secure video conference platform like Zoom. There’s no stand-in, and everything from the vows to the legal paperwork can happen online. Learn more on our Online Wedding Ceremony page.
Why Choose a Virtual Marriage Over Proxy?
Many couples prefer virtual weddings because they feel more personal—after all, you’re both there, celebrating together in real time! Virtual marriage also has fewer legal limitations and is increasingly recognized for international couples, LGBTQ+ partners, and those apart due to work or military duty.
How Does Online Marriage Work?
It’s surprisingly straightforward! We walk you through every step, from getting married online, to obtaining your online marriage certificate, and handling documentation such as apostille or translation for immigration. Find the details on How It Works.
Proxy Marriage for Military & International Couples
Proxy marriage can still be an option for active-duty U.S. military members who are deployed, or international couples facing extreme travel complications. If your situation is unique, get tailored help using our Contact page.
Getting Your Marriage Certificate Fast
Both proxy and virtual marriages result in a legally-recognized marriage certificate. With a virtual marriage, you often get yours faster—sometimes the same day! We also offer apostille service if you need paperwork validated abroad.
Online Marriage vs. Traditional Marriage: The Paperwork
Wondering how your document will differ from a courthouse marriage? Rest assured, your online marriage license holds the same legal weight. Need certified translations or immigration support? Visit our certified translations and immigration support pages to make it easy.
Relationship Tips for Online and Proxy Marriages
Communication is key, especially when you’re managing time zones or deployment schedules! Take time to plan your virtual wedding—from your vows to sharing the big moment with friends on Zoom. Need more tips? Check our blog for all things virtual marriage!
FAQs About Proxy and Virtual Marriages
- Is a proxy marriage legal everywhere?
Proxy marriages are only legal in select U.S. states and for certain situations (like military deployment). Always check your state and country regulations first, or contact our team to help clarify! - Do both of us have to be present for a virtual marriage?
Yes, both partners must be present via video for an online/virtual marriage. No stand-ins are allowed—so you enjoy the experience together. - Can I use my online marriage certificate for immigration?
In most cases, yes! Our team can help you with paperwork and, if needed, provide apostille or translation services. - Is a Zoom wedding recognized internationally?
Many countries recognize U.S.-issued online marriage certificates, especially with proper legalization and translation. If you have a unique scenario, reach out for help. - What’s the quickest way to get married online?
Start on our Get Married page—we often complete the process in less than 24 hours!
Let’s Make Your Online Marriage Simple
No matter where you are or who you love, Virtual Same Day Marriage makes it quick and easy to celebrate your commitment. Have questions about online wedding ceremonies or proxy marriages? Contact us here. We’re happy to help you tie the knot—fast, simple, and with heart!
